For a really long time, I've felt that I don't have a story. That because my life has looked perfect from the outside, I can't help anyone. I think most people that believe in God feel like they can't be used by Him, whether it be because they feel like their past was too messy, or in my case, not messy enough. Not that I'd ever hope to have a bad upbringing, but I just felt like I grew up in a normal household, my parents are still married, I've always had a place to live, so I don't have the right to say anything to anyone who has been through more.
I'm coming to realize, with great reminders from the people around me, that I don't need to have a crazy story to help people. I have a big enough heart and the ability to give people little reminders that they are enough. That it's okay to hurt for as long as you need to. That better days are coming, no matter how cliche that sounds.
I think it's so important to take advantage of the fact that we can make a person's day by saying one kind thing. By being there for them when they need it. By listening. By hugging. Because you could be the only person in their life willing to do that for them.
I just want to remind you that it doesn't take a crazy past to be used by God or to change a life. Whatever you want to call it. Love is all it takes. Just keep being there for people, giving words of encouragement, giving hugs, letting people know that they're not alone. That's all.
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